Men dating two women at once
Better Definition As I went on more and more dates in a short time period, I realized that what I really wanted in a woman and what I had been willing to accept were very different.
When I was only meeting one girl a month, there were so many qualities that I didn’t like that I would ignore simply because I didn’t want to have to start all over with someone else.
I was discovering which conversations worked better than others and was able to avoid bumps in the conversation all together.
The confusion of first-dates was disappearing altogether. I hadn’t even thought that having fun could be a part of online dating but as I grew more comfortable, I had more fun.
When the stress lessened, I stopped paying attention to myself and started paying attention to my date.
To put it in less sitcom-y terms, you have my hearty approval to date two dudes at once. Anyone who’s ever been to a dueling-banjos night will tell you when it comes to teeth, four is all you really need. The same logic applies to casual dating, and here’s why: Click here to continue reading this post on Red Eye Chicago.
In fact, it’s practically a rite of passage these days, especially if you’re a U.
All of these dates were very stressful because of the time being I devoted just to get to the date.
First date failure, whether because she wasn’t what I was looking for or the reverse, was very difficult.