Overcoming dating fears
[…]Humans compete less for territory than for rank.The attention of the tribe is a kind of psychic territory where we harvest the resources we cooperative apes need to survive.Younger girls also usually wear much more revealing or skintight clothing across most cultures than guys do. Attraction is a feeling that happens automatically in response to some stimulus.The reason why I’m explaining to you how a man’s attraction system works is so you realize that attraction is not a choice. For men that stimulus is usually visual: long shiny hair, straight white smile, big innocent eyes, a curvy body, etc.In this article, I’m going to provide you with key pointers to getting the relationship you want.I’m going to start off with the basics so that even a guy who is a virgin and totally confused about dating, can be on his way to having a girlfriend. So I had basically thrown myself into a social situation where it’s the HARDEST to meet women if you’re a more introverted or intelligent guy. So if you want a girlfriend, then you’ll need to do something different. Looking back now, it’s no wonder why girls never showed any interest in me.Some women claim that shyness is cute and that you should just “be yourself”…but when they say “shy” they probably mean the strong silent type of guy, not the nervous socially awkward type like I was.
Think of any hobbies you’ve ever thought of trying — whether it’s drawing, martial arts, meditation — and see where these classes are offered. Scientific studies have also found that men across cultures prefer about a 0.7 hip-to-waist ratio. Because it’s this body shape that would most successfully give birth to a child in our distant past.
I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.
As long as a girl is cute or attractive, many guys will see her as girlfriend material… The truth is that many shy men can go months or even years without having a girlfriend, dating or even kissing a girl.
Now here’s where all this science becomes useful to you…
A woman’s attraction system is triggered by much different things than a man’s.