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In both profiles he makes it clear that he is “a trans guy” and that people should “only message me if you’re cool with that.” Part of the need for this complicated negotiation is that OKCupid doesn’t allow users to identify as “transgender”—just “male” or “female.” The site has been in the news this week after cofounder Christian Rudder announced that developers secretly changed some people's compatibility ratings and removed profile photos to learn more about behavior on the site.While some have criticized OKCupid for showing people false or manipulated content as an experiment, the site's failure to accommodate transgender users may be a larger and more long-standing ethical dilemma.La Mon prefers to be out about his gender with potential dates.
She and the guy hadn't had much communication, and she assumed he was mostly interested in hooking up. ” This doesn't happen often, Colleen said, but when it does she tries to play it cool. Many can’t get their head around the fact that I’m actually a guy but I try not to take that rejection personally.As a lesbian I was rejected for a host of reasons – too butch, not butch enough, too short, too immature – but when I think of the women I’ve turned down and the reasons I’ve given myself, if not them, then there is only frustration to be had in getting too involved in someone else’s negative response to your advances.Categories for sexual orientation are straight, gay, bisexual, or queer.Users can also tell Mesh if they are interested in meeting men, women, or everyone.